Sister Elizabeth Kilbride
August 6, 1924 ~ August 11, 2020
Sister Elizabeth Kilbride, R.S.M., (Sister Mary Alacoque), 96 yrs., died peacefully on Tuesday, August 11, 2020 at Frances Warde Convent after a brief illness. Sister Elizabeth was the daughter of Ernest E. and Margaret Mary McGuiness Kilbride.
After graduating from Cathedral High School, Portland, she commenced higher education at St. Joseph's College, then located on Walton Street, Portland. In 1946, she entered the Sisters of Mercy, Portland, to begin religious studies while earning a B.A. in French. Sister Elizabeth's facility in languages led her to pursue a M.A. in Latin from Boston College as well as Greek studies at Regis College, Weston, MA. and Catholic University, Washington, D.C. In addition, she took advanced studies in Spanish from the University of New Hampshire and also took courses in Guidance and Library Science at the University of Maine, Orono.
Sister Elizabeth's teaching career was primarily in high school and college, concentrating in foreign languages. She began her ministry in education at St. Joseph's Academy, Portland and went on to Cathedral High School as teacher and principal; John Bapst High School, Bangor and St. Joseph's College, Standish. Sister Elizabeth also taught for eighteen years at Bangor High School, Bangor and was Chair of Foreign Languages. While on the faculty, she received many accolades, including the distinguished Maine Classicist of the Year 1980 Award. She was fortunate to travel to both Rome and Greece that only strengthened her teaching kills. Sister Elizabeth touched the hearts of many students! She was an educator par excellence.
Upon her retirement, she returned to St. Joseph's College, working in the Library and volunteering as Student Advisor. In 2010, Sister Elizabeth moved to Portland where she volunteered as a Eucharistic Minister at Mercy Hospital and was in Prayer Ministry.
Sister Elizabeth generously gave of her time to the Board of Mercy Hospital and Mercy Health System of Maine. She also was on several committees at Mercy Hospital and St. Joseph's College, a member of the Mercy Hospital Auxiliary and Sisters of Mercy Associates.
Affectionately known as Sister Betty to many, she especially cared for those in need. An example of this was when on campus, she could be seen collecting cans and bottles, using the money for a girl in her residence who didn't have gas money to go home. Sister Betty respected the students in the residence and they in turn held her in high esteem. She showed her love, loyalty and faithfulness to her many friends, family and community. This was especially true of her beloved sister, Sister Patricia, whom she shared so many community and family events with, till her death six years ago. Particularly close to Sister Betty's heart was her family. She enthusiastically recalled all the special times they had, whether it was holidays, birthdays or other events, each gave her joy!
Because of Covid 19 virus, her family gathered outside her window as she was dying and sang her favorite hymns and songs, just like they did at family gatherings. She always loved this and it was their gift to her in return for all she had given them. Sister Betty's family and friends, together with her religious community are grateful for her many years of generous, scholarly and faithful commitment supported by the spiritual strength of her motto, Tecum omnia possum. (With You I am able to do all things).
Sister Elizabeth was predeceased by her dear parents, Margaret and Ernest; her sisters, Ethel Charette Dinardo and Sister Patricia Kilbride, R.S.M.; her brothers, Ernest, Richard and Charles Kilbride.
She is also survived by her sister-in-law and friend, Patricia Kilbride; her many nieces, nephews, great nieces, great nephews and their families; several close friends and her Sisters in community.
The Sisters of Mercy are grateful to Kelley St.John, RN, as well as the Staff of Frances Warde Convent for their devoted care of Sister Elizabeth.
Visiting Hours celebrating Sr. Kilbride's life will be held on Saturday, August 15, 2020 from 3-6PM at the Conroy-Tully Walker South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland with a Prayer Service at 3:30PM. A Graveside Service will be held on Monday, August 17 at 9:30AM at New Calvary Cemetery, Broadway, South Portland. A Memorial Mass will be celebrated at a later date. To view Sister Kilbride's memorial page or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Sister Elizabeth's memory may be sent to, Sisters of Mercy, 966 Riverside Street, Portland, Maine, 04103.








Vale, Soror.
– Donna
I was a member of the graduating class of 1961 at St. Joseph’s Academy. Sister Mary Alacoque was one of the finest teachers we ever had. May she rest in peace. Elizabeth Bennett Libby
– Elizabeth Bennett Libby
Much love to Sister Betty and find memories from my first year at SJC. Living in St. Joes Hall
– Bethany Duca-Johnson
My dear friend, Sister Betty…she taught me so much-including, by example, a willingness to continue to learn and grow. She was a champion of those with the fewest resources and did not suffer fools. She loved well and was loved in return.
– Liz Wiesen
Sister Betty was not only my aunt but a dear friend of mine and Maureen and our family. She was an amazing woman, a teacher and scholar, who inspired and touched us all with her remarkable faith and deep love. She dedicated her life to serving God, helping those in need .Indeed she was a true sister of mercy. Today we want to express our thanks to her and to celebrate the joy she brought into all our lives. Rick and Maureen Charette We love you and miss you Aunt Betty.
– Rick Charette
Sr. Alacoque taught French to my class at St. Joseph’s Academy, wearing the lace veil, soon after she entered the Convent. The next year we had her as a white veiled Novice. She was a great teacher, and we loved her stories of growing up in Libbytown, especially peering in at the Holy Rollers church. It was always special to see her at Mass at St. Pius in recent years.
– Barbara O’Connor DeCoste, SJA 1950
To all the members of the Kilbride family I am very sorry to hear of Sister Betty,s loss She was an amazing spirit of determination and caring I am grateful to have been a recipient of her many gifts She was so proud of you all and through you her legacy will continue. Love to you all
– Patty Wallace
Sr Betty supported us, personally and professionally, from the first moment we came as a young family to St Joseph College in 1996. She delighted in our young sons and we always looked forward to the Rick Charette concerts each November. Sr Betty supported students and staff in their moments of joy and in times of crisis. We are deeply grateful for her love and prayers always. We send our love and prayers to the Sisters of Mercy and the Kilbride family. Blessings, Erin Swezey and Tim Leary
– Erin Swezey