Joseph Louis Aceto
November 21, 1963 ~ February 24, 2019
Resided in:
Portland, ME
Portland - Joseph "Joey" Louis Aceto Jr., 55, passed away on February 24, 2019 after losing a long, hard battle with opioid addiction. This horrible disease took away many years of his life, but his family wants to look back and remember the Joey they knew and loved.
Born on November 21, 1963, Joey was a loving son, brother, uncle, nephew, cousin, friend, and father to his beloved son Joseph Louis Aceto III. He was dedicated to his family and would give the shirt off his back to anyone in need. His playful spirit will surely be missed.
He grew up attending Portland schools and graduated from Deering High School in 1983. He was known by his friends as "Chinka". He worked many years installing ceilings for Loring Accoustics, and later on his own. He was a huge fan of Rock n' Roll music, sports of any kind (especially his Raiders). He loved spending time with his family, whether it was enjoying his mother's Italian cooking for Sunday dinner, or ice fishing at his family's camp in Princeton, ME. When his son was younger playing Youth Football, Joey would be seen running the sidelines coaching and rooting him on. He was his biggest fan.
Joey is survived by his mother and father, Sandra and Joseph Aceto, Sr; brother and sister-in-law, James and Paula Aceto; two sisters, Beth Aceto and her partner Chris, and Tammie Garland; his nieces and nephews who will never forget his relentless tickles; many cousins, aunts, uncles, friends, and his greatest joy, his son Joseph Aceto III (Joe C-Fus).
We continue to pray for all those affected by this disease.
Visiting hours celebrating Joey's life will be held from 4:00-7:00pm on Friday, March 1 at the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home, 172 State Street, Portland. To view Joey's memorial page or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to:
Portland Recovery Community Center
468 Forest Ave
Portland, ME 04101
Or
Milestone Recovery
65 India St
Portland, ME 04101
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David OBrion I Grew up with Joey from a young age. From ball games down at Baxter School to hanging out in the woods and at Rocky Mountain. As we got older it was onto dirt bikes riding the tracks, pole lines and where ever else the trails brought us. Joey was always full of energy and carried that with him on all groups adventures. It was sad to watch Joey follow the path he took, but our memories will always be of the fun we had in ” The Hood” My heart goes out to all his family…. RIP
– David OBrion
My deepest sympathys to the Aceto family. Many fond memories of our days in Deering Center and the Pines. I never saw Joey without a smile…it was infectious. Heaven is certainly a lot brighter with Joey there You will be missed by all. RIP my friend until we meet again…thank you for the great memories.
– Stephen DeKubber
I can still see your smile and hear your laugh. RIP Joey – Brenda LaMontagne
– Brenda LaMontagne
Dear dad. You are, and always will be my best friend, ever. You’ve taught me all there is to know about being a man, and you sure raised a tough one. I will always idolize you and everything you ever did, I always wanted to be just like you. You left me much too soon I can tell you that. But with the many lessons you’ve taught me in this life, I know that no matter how hard things get, I will still make it. This is the greatest lesson you’ve ever taught me. I’m going to miss hearing you say “poor kid” to all of the people who say I look just like you. And I will always wait to hear you say “I love you bud” just one more time. Our bond was greater than anything I will ever know in this world, I’m not sure what I’ll do without you. I love you unconditionally my greatest friend, my father. I will see you when I get there. Shine on you crazy diamond.
– Joseph Aceto III
I remember when we were kids and ride mini bikes down the tracks ! We were carefree and had lots of fun and he had such a great smile! So sorry for your loss .
– Robin Waterman
SANDY AND JOEY…MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES…THINKING OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY…SANDY I LOVE YOU THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BEING THERE FOR MY MOM…I WILL NEVER FORGET THAT… LOVE AND PEACE ALWAYS…DOUGIE SAWYER
– Doug Sawyer
Joey, I will forever cherish all our childhood memories and I can’t but help continue to look for you cutting through our yard! With fondest thoughts of the wonderful person you are, truly special and dear to our hearts, love from Dorothy, Tim and Tom Whitney
– Tom Whitney
I will always hold tight to every memory we ever made! I love you Joey!
– Dawnanddestiny@yahoo.com
Remember the days back at Baxter school, working paper routes and playing LL4 baseball on PBA together. Just like it were yesterday. Lots of memories my friend . RIP Joe i will see you on the other side. Eric Nevers
– Eric Nevers
OMG I am so sorry. I remember Joey when he was just a doll. So much life and his big Brother Jimmy was his buddy. Oh you wonderful family have lost a treasure but he is your angel to protect and keep you close. Wow, my heart is so heavy. God Bless you all so much. Love and Prayers.
– Leslie Sargent
Joey I will never forget when I ran into you I could always expect a bear hug and kiss. You were one of a kind Pal your smile always showed you were happy to see me . Your loyalty to family, friends were amazing and would do anything to the extreme to help anyone. Rest In Peace buddy I’ll miss running into and catching up on everything in seconds. Forever Friend Richie
– Richie Axelsen
My deepest sympathy to all of his family and friends. I had the honor and pleasure of going to school with Joey! In high school I lived at my Aunt on Vannah Ave he would come to mow or remove snow. We’d take walks down to Back Cove and hold some pretty awesome conversations and some pretty funny at times. I am so sorry to hear how he passed, I’m glad you didn’t gloss it over. The community needs to know and see how bad the opioid crisis is. I was on long time on very strong opioids for many surgeries. It’s been 2 1/2 years that I’ve been clean. My heart really goes out to you all! I wish I could be there to celebrate his life however I live in N.C. and on Chemo so I can’t travel. Please tell Joey he was liked and loved by so many! I shall keep you in my prayers! Kathy Arey!
– Kathleen Arey Solomon
I Lost my Little “Big Brother” To a Demon he couldn’t overcome. I will miss you every day that I’m here on earth, knowing that we will meet again. You always had my back and everyone else that you held near and dear. I wish I could get one more Bear hug, a kiss on the cheek and a I Love you Jim, with a I love you too Brother back at you. You left a beautiful legacy In your Son Joseph III and we see your smile in him.Rest in Peace Little Joe. Until we meet again. Your family loves and will miss you everyday.
– Jim Aceto
I’ll always remember Joey as a sweet, caring person. He hung out with my younger siblings but always took the time to talk to me. So very sorry for your loss. You will be greatly missed.
– Terri (Buck) and Dave Welch
So sorry to hear this news!Sending love and sympathy! Rest in Power, love and Joy, Joey! We shared some great times! Thank you for the memories old friend!! Much love to the entire family! David Porter
– David Porter
My heart is sad about losing Joey, I will hold memories of you for always. My deepest sympathy to Beth, Tammy and your family. I found his senior picture on Tuesday knowing I kept it for all these years I’ll miss you my friend
– Julia Daniels
Words can not express the sadness. I feel for Sandra, Joey, and family. Little Joey will always be a a huge part of my memories of that wonderful family. I had the pleasure of being able to watch him grow and witness the love he brought us. His smile lit up the room, and I will cherish our time together. May God watch over you. Uncle Frank
– Frank Haskell
Our deepest condolences to the Aceto family. We are so sorry that we lost Joey so soon. May he now be at peace. Hugs to you all. Cathy, Erica and Lauren Robichaud and Bill Kennedy xoxo
– Cathy Robichaud
Joey is at peace with to many to soon !! You were the life of the visit I smiled when I saw Joey coming you were always in my thoughts & prayers always there for me after Brian’s stroke making me smile when I thought I couldn’t taking my son to hockey games all sports events your son was your heart & life god speed & bless your son & family you will be greatly loved & missed xoxo to you & Brian MacKerron R.I.P. gone to soon Joey
– Holly Hanrahan
Sandy & Joseph, we share our love with your family for the loss of your dear son. Our sincere love and thoughts. Carole & Gerry Brocher
– Carole & Gerry Brocher
Joey was soloved by all of us who grew up, knew and went to school together. Our Stevens avenue antics and okay so we may have skipped a class or two just to walk to Cumbies tell some jokes and sneak a cigarette or two, without setting any of the desks in back of science class on fire. Fly High Angel and RIP, to the entire family my heartfelt condolences. Anna (Thurlow) Kennedy
– Anna Thurlow Kennedy
I loved my cousin Joey very much he was so Loving and Caring and I am going to miss him so much until we meet again I Love You,may you (R.I.P. JOEY)
– John F. Conley Jr.
I am so sorry for your loss, and the pain you all suffered seeing Joey go through his addiction. My heart goes out to all of you. My prayers that his love will fill your hearts during this time of loss, and that you will find peace in time. Respectfully and with love, Christine (Davis) Turner.
– Christine Turner