Robert J. Colby

January 30, 1957 ~ March 13, 2019
Resided in:
Portland, ME
Portland- Robert J. Colby, 62, of Ridge Road died peacefully on Wednesday, March 13, 2019 at the Gosnell Memorial Hospice House following a courageous battle with cancer. His loving family was by his side.
Bob was born in Newton, MA on January 30, 1957 the son of the late Richard S. and Mary E. (Burns) Colby. He graduated from Cheverus High School in 1975. He went on to further his education, attending the University of Maine at Orono, studying Fine Arts.
Throughout the years Bob explored many career paths, including various positions at Portland area restaurants, performing title searches, warehouse and retail work for L.L. Bean in Freeport and most recently driving for the ABC Taxi Company. Bob's passion for the theatrical arts led him to join the local theater companies including Stone Pinhead and Mad Horse Theater where he formed lifelong friendships. He was a voracious reader and loved literature of all kinds; he was also a gifted writer. He wrote many articles for the Bollard Newspaper, involving research into the history of Portland. Bob was intensely interested and informed about world affairs and social justice, and was always ready to share his thoughtful, strong political opinions. He loved spending time with friends at trivia night at Brian Boru, watching and answering all the questions on Jeopardy, doing crossword puzzles, including the New York Times, in pen. Bob was a movie buff and loved listening to the music of the Grateful Dead and Phish. Bob was a great friend, with a dry humor and quick wit. He will be deeply missed by all who knew him.
Bob was predeceased by a sister, Mary Colby-Donovan in 2005. He is survived by two sisters, Sheila Colby of Portland, and Kathleen Colby McGrath of New York; six nieces and nephews, Kate and her husband Neil O'Sullivan of NY, Michael and his wife Nicole McGrath of NY, Meg and her husband Aaron Tabela of MA, Kevin and his wife Courtney Donovan of MA, Brendan and his wife Liz Birch of NY, and Mirabel Donovan of MA; eight great nieces and great nephews.
Visiting hours celebrating Bob's life will be held on Saturday, March 16, 2019 from 12:00pm to 1:30pm at the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home, 172 State Street, Portland. A memorial service will follow at the funeral home at 1:30. Burial will be private. To view Bob's memorial page or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com
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Wishing you peace to bring comfort,courage to face the days ahead,and loving memories to forever hold in your heart.
– Louise B
Kathy and Shiela – i’m so sorry to hear of Bob’s passing. You were both wonderful sisters – please know my prayers and thoughts are with you.
– Alice Chapin
Shelia so sorry for the loss of your brother. May he be at peace now. You are in my prayers and thoughts. Debbie Sensecqua
– Debbie Sensecqua
Oh Colby, How sad I have been since hearing the news this morning. I have been thinking about the conversations. The really good ones in the Jenkin’s backyard the night before Danny got married. The smile that comes when I think of you at the top of the escalator at the Berkeley BART station when we both moved west. You so looked like a pimp in that hat. The visits to see me at the first job that I had in the City a million years ago. I really was still a kid. The talks about baseball. Our love for Spaceman and how happy I was/am to be able to get those gifts from him to you. I think of these things and cry. Then I think of that horrific disease that took you. The grief is buffered by the thought that you are no longer in its clutches. May you soar now, you marvelous free spirit. Until we meet again.
– Mary K Hayden
Bob was a kind and talented man. His performance in “Meet the Peasants’ (you can find it on you tube) was hilarious!) Bon voyage Bob. Portland will kind of suck without you. Matt Power
– power.matt@yahoo.com.
Bob was a good friend in high school. We nicknamed him “Feeble Bob” because he was about 120 soaking wet and fit nicely in the area behind the backseat of my Volkswagon Beetle. He never minded being called “The Feeb”. We partied a lot together, hung out with Dan Hayden and Mark Cloutier, all great guys. RIP Bob…..
– Sam Minervino
Our dear friend. We are so saddened by his passing but grateful for nearly 40 years of friendship (40 years, when did we get so old?!) One memory is dancing with Bob at dead shows. He would act out the lyrics while dancing, smiling throughout, as we all were. I loved the way he tilted his head & smiled so frequently, always amused. A great moment for dead heads was recognition of a song segue & the collective rush of joy through the crowd. With his brilliant mind, Bob could always ‘call the tune’. We shared so many wonderful times. I will not say we ‘loved’ him in past tense because that love will never cease. With heavy hearts, we will see you on Saturday as we celebrate the life of our brilliant, loyal, opinionated, funny, talented, dear friend. With SO much love! XOXO! Karen
– Karen Hight
Bob was one of those type of guys you don’t tend to forget after meeting him. Every time I would run into him, we would have the best political discussions. I really enjoyed those meetings and will him. P
– Pete Vermette