Barbara Ann Arnoldo

June 2, 2019
Portland - Barbara Ann Arnoldo, 71, of Falmouth passed away peacefully Sunday, June 2, 2019.
Barbara Ann was born in Providence, Rhode Island on June 17, 1947. She was the daughter of the late John and Barbara Arnoldo and grew up in South Portland. Barbara Ann was an accomplished teacher, businesswoman, and school principal. She held a Bachelor's, two Master's, and a Doctorate in Education, the latter from Boston College. She served the Catholic Diocese of Portland as principal of St. Patrick, Notre Dame, and Cathedral Schools. She loved and cared for the children of multiple faiths in her schools. She sought to create a safe, loving and nurturing environment for both her students and faculty.
Barbara Ann was a faithful follower of Jesus Christ and after retirement, continued volunteering and serving the diocesan schools through consulting. Even while battling cancer, she reached out to others through prayer and consolation, maintaining a prayer list through her most difficult times. In her final weeks she very much wanted to join Jesus and her parents in heaven.
Barbara Ann is survived by her two brothers, John Arnoldo, Jr. and his partner Ron Zeiler, Thomas Arnoldo his wife Christine and their twin sons, Matthew and Andrew.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:00AM, Friday, June 7, 2019, at Holy Martyrs Church, 266 Foreside Road, Falmouth. Burial will follow at New Calvary Cemetery, South Portland. After Mass, family and friends are invited to a reception at Holy Martyrs Church. Arrangements are under the director of the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home, 172 State Street, Portland.
To view Barbara Ann's memorial page or share an online condolence please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com.
Memorial contributions may be made in Barbara Ann's memory to the American Cancer Society, Northern New England Region, 1 Bowdoin Mill Island, Suite 300, Topsham, Maine 04086-1240
I am sad to learn of Barbara’s passing. I remember her as a warm and friendly classmate at SPHS. Some years later, on a return visit to South Portland, we chanced to meet at a local supermarket and struck up conversation without missing a beat. Since then, I always hoped we might meet again to catch up, but our lives took us on divergent paths. I would expect as much, but I am heartened to see how deservedly loved and respected she was by those who were fortunate enough to know and love her in return. My sincere condolences to her family and all her loved ones. N. Peter Libbey
– N. Peter Libbey
Barbara Ann & I have been friends for 60 years. we went through school together, Girl Scouts, toured Europe, were Honor attendants at each other’s wedding. Through the recent years, we have been in phone contact. My heart is broken. John & Tom I will keep you & your families in my prayers.
– Kit Schofield
Just saw this sad news in the Boston College Magazine. She was a good friend in our cohort group of 25, and in our smaller group of 5. She helped me get through the doctoral program. Peace be with you Barbara Ann and with your family. Judy Pellettieri
– Judy Pellettieri
She always met me with a smile and kind word when passing on Pride Farm Rd. I also enjoyed the truffle/candy “thank you” for the little things neighbors do. What a wonderful lady who will be missed.
– Kevin McElearney
We, the Class of 1965 from South Portland High School, extend our sincere sympathies to her family. Barbara was a strong and remarkable woman. Her dedication to living life to the fullest with Jesus Christ by her side was admired by all. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless. Sincerely, Donna Conley Plummer
– Donna Conley Plummer
I was so sorry to Hear that barbara passed away of cancer. She is no with her mom. In Heaven. She has come to my home in a girl scout uniform. We had a coustome party. I will miss her.She was a good friend to me. I used to see her at church. Kristen Tully
– kristen tully
To The Arnoldo Family, Barbara Ann has brought us joy, made us laugh and shown us love, has given us the lasting gifts of a beautiful life and blessed our memories forever. Thanking God for Barbara Ann’s life, and thinking of your family with sympathy during this difficult time. Love, Terry Alden and her daughter Michelle McElwain
– Michelle McElwain and Terry Alden