Pamela Frances McCarthy
February 14, 1944 ~ April 8, 2020
Resided in:
Windham, ME
Windham-Pamela F. McCarthy passed away on the evening of April 9, 2020 from cancer.
Pam was born on February 14, 1944 in Skowhegan, Maine to Lawrence A. and Evelyn B. Croteau. She received her nursing degree from the Mercy Hospital School of Nursing in 1965, was licensed as a registered nurse, and later earned the certified perioperative nurse credential. She worked as an operating room nurse at Mercy Hospital for 37 years, and was head of the department for several of those years.
On August 20, 1966 she married Robert F. McCarthy, and in the summer of 1972 moved to Windham where they raised three children: Denise, Paul, and Kathleen.
Pam had a passion for reading, solving puzzles, and quilting. Her award winning quilts are treasured by all she gave them to. Shortly after retiring, Pam and her husband traveled extensively, including a culinary tour to Italy. Pam was a renowned cook, known for her homemade baked goods, jellies, and delicious dinners. She was a kind and caring person, who generously gave her time to others and thoughtfully selected the perfect gift for all occasions. Pam will be missed by all who knew her.
Pam was preceded in death by her husband, Robert McCarthy; a brother, Robert Croteau; her parents, Lawrence and Evelyn Croteau. She is survived by her children,Denise and George Jones of Williamsburg, VA, Paul and Leann McCarthy of Windham, Kathleen and Mathieu Benoit of Wasilla, AK; her grandson, Conor Robert McCarthy, and her granddaughter, Noa Reine Benoit.
Due to the present circumstances, there will be an immediate family only service with plans for a celebration of life at a later date. Arrangements are under the direction of the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home, 172 State Street, Portland, ME. To view Pam's memorial page, or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com
In lieu of flowers, please send donations to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital www.stjude.org/donate/donate-to-st-jude.html or the American Lung Association www.lung.org/about-us/local-associations/maine.html
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We were so saddened to hear of my Cousin Pam’s passing. Sending you all our prayers and deepest sympathy. Nancy and Dick Glover
– Nancy Glover
Thank you Elaine, she was very private. There are lots of broken hearts.
– Kathleen
So sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. We worked together in the operating room for many years. But we also had another close connection. My Dalmatian was the father of her Duchess! When we bred my dog Toro, I had the pick of the litter, and gave that choice to Pam. I think I’m correct in that she named her Duchess. We talked many times of the fun antics of our dogs. We’ll keep those fond memories! My condolences, Barbara Bouchard
– Barbara Bouchard
Denise, Paul and Kathleen, Pam and Bob were longtime friends with whom we shared many laughs. We saw each other often when Bob and Wilbur taught together. Pam was a gracious hostess who always had delicious treats to share. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you celebrate a life so well lived. Wilbur and Barbara Hall
– Hall
I worked with Pam for twenty years at Mercy. She was an outstanding OR nurse and coworker. Our deepest sympathies to the family. Helen and Jeff Runnels
– helenrunnels@maine.rr.com
I went to Mercy Hospital School of Nursing with Pam, and although I lost contact with her over the years, my memory of her was that she was a kind and caring person. Rest in Peace, dear Pam. Your work here on earth is complete. Thoughts and prayers for the family.
– Diane Leckey Mann
I am so sad to learn about Pam. My sympathy to her children and grand children. I met Pam when her baby girl needed a blood exchange right after she was born, Later when Pam returned to work in the Mercy Hospital OR we spent many hours and years together. A wonderful, calm ,loyal, nurse and good friend for many years. Sheila Brown
– Sheila Brown
My condolences to her children and grandchildren I met Pam in 1962 as I also attended Mercy Hospital School of Nursing. Pam lived in the dorm room across the hall. She was my Maid of Honor in 1965. She was a private person who will be missed . Elaine Hewett
– Elaine Hewett