Eileen Munroe

January 12, 1943 ~ July 14, 2024
Resided in:
Westbrook, Maine
J. Eileen Munroe January 12, 1943 - July 14, 2024
Westbrook - With a few months to reflect on my wonderful life, I decided to write my story.
At the age of 81, I passed away on July 14, 2024, peacefully at home surrounded by my family.
Born January 12, 1943, in Portland, Maine, the fourth child of Daniel Hegarty and Marie Antoinette Leclerc, I was always considered the baby of the family.
We lived steps from Sacred Heart Church, which was the center of our religious and social life, and where I learned God to be number one in my life.
Educated by the Sisters of Mercy, for 12 years, graduating from Cathedral High School in 1960 and to my last day stayed connected to the sisters as a Mercy Associate.
In 1967 I met Father John Munroe and following his discernment to leave active ministry for a life dedicated to marriage and teaching, we were married in San Diego California in 1969. We were then blessed with two children, Mark Thomas in 1970 and Lara Jean in 1971. Because of my love of Maine and wanting to be closer to family, we returned to our home state of Maine in 1979. I had the privilege of being a stay-at-home mom for 12 years and then returned to a career in telecommunications, eventually retiring in 2006.
With a great need to give back in some way all the blessings I had received, volunteer work was calling me. I volunteered with hospice for 15 years. Working with dementia patients and sitting vigil with the dying, I considered this to be one of the greatest privileges of my life.
I was self-taught in many ways and as an avid reader I followed the writings of mystics, theologians and activists. Three of my favorite writers being John O’Donohue; Teilhard deChardin and Elizabeth A. Johnson CSJ. I learned life is about living in harmony with all of creation, loving all as brothers and sisters, finding the gratitude in every day and being at peace in “returning to the home we have never left.” ~John O’Donohue.~
I will miss you all desperately and yet am at a beautiful, grace filled place in my life.
Being predeceased by my parents; sister Constance and husband Laird Campbell; brother Gerald Hegarty; nephew Thomas Moran; In-laws John and Bernie Munroe, I look forward to being reunited with them.
I am survived by my husband, John; children, Mark (Michelle)of Mansfield, MA.; daughter, Lara (Brian)Heal of Gorham; five grandchildren, Katelyn, Shawn (Emma), Jack, Ryan Munroe, John Heal; and Great grandchild, Wes Wallace Munroe; Sister, Jean and husband, Robert Moran of Windsor Locks, CT.; Sister-in-Law, Joanne Hegarty of Easton, MA; Brother-in-Law Thom Munroe and wife Nancy of Mechanicsville, VA; Brother-in-Law Brian Cody of Brunswick, ME. and many nieces and nephews I dearly love.
Visiting hours will be held on July 22, from 3-7pm at St. Pius X Church, Ocean Ave, Portland. An 11am Mass of Christian Burial will be held on July 23, at St. Pius X Church. A private burial will be held at a later date. Arrangements are under the direction of the Conroy-Tully Walker South Portland Chapel.
Memorial contributions may be made in her memory to Hospice of Southern Maine, 390 US Route One
Scarborough, ME 04074.
My prayers and condolences to Jon, Lara and Mark. It shall be my privilege to offer the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass for the repose of Eileen’s great and good soul – and the consolation of her family. “Eileen, may the angels lead you into paradise; may the martyrs come to welcome you and take you to the holy city, the new and eternal Jerusalem.
Fr. John Davis
Thank you God for the Gift of Eileen!
I met Eileen after mass at St. Jude’s Church in Freeport when I moved to Maine in March 1983.
Joining the choir at St. Jude’s was the beginning of a great friendship, a Gift!
Your life lights up the lives of so many!
John, Mark and Lara.
Sincere condolences and my thoughts are with you all at this sad time. Be comforted in the fact you have many cherished memories with such a wonderful woman, and how lucky you were to have her as a wife and Mum. I’m sure she will be having a great catch up with Frank and Fr Christy on old times.
Ní bheidh a leithéid ann arís – There will never be the likes of her again
From all the Kilkelly’s back in Ireland.
Barry
Dear Mark, Lara, Michelle, Brian and your families – We send our heartfelt condolences, from the entire Quigley family, including my parents Bob & Claire. We will pray that you may find peace and consolation in Eileen’s departure, and the grace to remember her wonderful contributions, energy, and love for all of you.
Grew up spending a lot of time at their house playing with Lara.
Was at church many years with the family too!
Elegant! Such a BIG heart!
John, Mark,Lara,
I’m so sorry for you loss! Your mom/wife has touched many lives! I feel blessed to have her and you all as part of precious memories of my childhood and church! Thinking of you and Praying for you! Love you! Lillie
Eileen had returned to work and was staying in a New York hotel in Times Square by herself. It was snowing. She told me she could have stayed in her nice warm room but instead put on her boots, gloves and hooded coat and went to a Broadway show! I loved her tenacity, willingness to learn something new and have fun!
We met Eileen & Jon at Christ the King Church in San Diego when Mark & Lara were toddlers. We became very good friends & saw each other often. Eileen & I had a bond that couldn’t be broken even when the Munroe family moved to the east coast.
I will see you again, my special friend.
Her everlasting love of her family, her kindness and willingness to help others.
Just by being her self.
Beautiful, inside and out.One of the kindest, selfless, thoughtful people I’ve ever known.
Eileen and John met Francis and me (Elaine) through CORPUS (Core of Reserved Priests United for Service). Both Eileen’s husband John and my husband Francis had become priests. But when both couples fell in love and planned to get married, John and Francis got permission from Rome to marry Eileen and Elaine
There was no nicer person, I am proud to have known her.
by being the person that she was
John, Lara and Mark
I am sorry to hear of your loss. Your wife/mom was a wonderful women. She always was so welcoming to me.
Jennifer Katz Smith
When I was 13 years old, Eileen (probably her mom, Aunt Antoinette), sent our family Eileen’s high school graduation picture. (My dad, Robert LeClerc, was Aunt Antoinette sole brother. )I thought that Eileen was the most beautiful girl in the world. I would stare at her picture and hope that I would be half as pretty when I went to high school! I especially loved her eyes-so blue! The difference between our ages seemed wide when we were that age, of course.
I have shared that story with Eileen many times, and we both have laughed.
Little did I know at the time, what an honorable, virtuous, spiritual heart Eileen had. I have always held her in the highest esteem. When I was young, I saw her physical beauty. As an adult, I saw in her a soul and spirit of nobility, goodness and honor, above all others I know.
I will miss speaking to you by phone, my dear cousin, just as I missed you when I returned home from our time in Africa, Maine, and the west coast of Florida.
I know you are at peace. I pray my admiration will help me become more like you.
My love always, Marelise (and Houdini also – from whom you enjoyed getting cards).
Eileen was my neighbor. I called her the Martha Stewart of Brydon Farm. She had a flair for floral arrangements was a master cook and pastry chef. But most of all, she was a compassionate listener. I will miss you my friend!
Eileen was my neighbor. I called her the Martha Stewart of Brydon Farm. She had a flair for floral arrangements was a master cook and pastry chef. But most of all, she was a compassionate listener. I will miss you my friend!
Dear John and Brian.
My deepest sympathies. Take comfort in your memories and family.
Her generous spirit
So sorry for your loss
To The Monroe Family- I was saddened to hear of the loss of Eileen.
We worked together for many years and development a wonderful working friendship.
We loss touch after retirement, however I saw her last year at Inn by the Sea and she was as lovely as ever.
She was so proud of her family and the love she had for them.
She was a wonderful person who treated everyone with kindness and respect.
Rejoice in Heaven, Eileen💕