Rocco J. DiDonato Jr.

October 7, 1947 ~ October 29, 2017
Portland-Rocco J. DiDonato Jr., 70, of State Street, died on Sunday, October 29, 2017, at Mercy Hospital with his loving family by his side
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Rocco was born in Portland on October 7, 1947, the son of the late Rocco J. Sr. and Phyllis G. (Smith) DiDonato. He graduated from Portland High School in the class of 1966.
Rocco spent his entire adult life working for the Portland Diocese, he was custodian at the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception for thirty three years and at Sacred Heart Church for seventeen years. He was a common sight on the alter as a server doing many Masses for daily Mass, weddings and funerals. Rocco was also an amazing musician, self-taught and played completely by ear, instruments included harmonica, accordion, piano, and the organ. He played the organ at the Cathedral and also had the opportunity to play the Kotzchmar Organ at Merrill Auditorium, and could often be heard volunteering his time to play the piano in the lobby of Maine Medical Center. Not only was he proficient at playing but he could tune pianos and organs. Rocco was also an amazing artist, doing portraits of people and mosaic work and volunteered for sixteen years at Maine Medical Center doing Pastoral services.
Rocco was a lifelong communicant of the Catholic Church and had a very strong faith. He will long be remembered as a kind, generous, and giving person who was always willing to help others.
The family would like to extend a special thank you to the staff of Seventy Five State Street and Seaside Nursing Center Wing 1&2 for the kindness and care extended to their brother.
Rocco was predeceased by a brother, William DiDonato. He is survived by three sisters, his twin Phyllis "Marie" Wiley-Cushman of Steep Falls, Mary and her husband Tim Cummings of Littleton, Donna and her husband Philip Cox of Portland; two brothers, Frank DiDonato and his companion Virginia Anderson of Portland, Robert and his wife Mary DiDonato of Portland; many aunts, uncles, nieces, and nephews.
Visiting hours and Celebration of Rocco's life will be held on Thursday, November 2, 2017 from 4:00 to 7:00pm at the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home, 172 State Street, Portland. Prayers will be recited at the funeral home at 9:15am on Friday, November 3, 2017 followed by a 10:00am Mass of Christian Burial at the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception, 307 Congress Street, Portland. Burial will follow in Calvary Cemetery. To view Rocco's memorial page, or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com
Those who wish may make contributions in Rocco's memory to: Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception, 307 Congress Street, Portland, ME 04101
Rocco was a gift to the world. He played the piano at Maine Medical Center and his music brought joy to all who heard it. The world has been diminished by his loss.
– James Humphrey
To my big brother. Now you got your wings you can fly high so everybody can hear your voice.
Keep singing out loud so I can find the right gates when my time comes. Johnny ( Rocco ) Can you say hello to Mom, Dad and William. R.I.P. FLY HIGH YOUR BABY BROTHER
– Robert DiDonato
Rocco was there at the Pastoral Care Office any time I needed him, and even beyond those times. He was a great volunteer, the patients loved him. He put in so many volunteer hours, he was dedicated.
Fr. Paul R. Marquis
– Rev. Paul R. Marquis
Rocco is a beacon of light and comfort throughout obstacles and pleasant times. Rocco’s contribution to family, friends, and acquaintances was above and beyond the expectations of those who had the pleasure of knowing him.
Rocco was always quick with a word of inspiration in times when many felt the impact of many life altering events. The hope he inspired in others to view the world toward a better future and the conversations shared last in our memories.
Through the sharing of activities, experiences recollected, and a distinguished meal (kit and kaboodle Sunday pasta with his family) Rocco attains the immortality which escapes most mortals.
– thomas collins jr
Rocco you were a saint on this earth! You’ll be missed
– Sabrina casale
Rocco was a great guy to talk with, I really enjoyed all the times with him, he was always s gentleman. Rocco was a superb musician, I listened to him for hours playing the piano & accordion with perfection. He is now resting in Glory. God be with the family at this difficult time
– Michael & Philip Tucci
Rest in Peace Rocco. Connie and Jimmy Somma
– connie somma