Carol Anne McLaughlin

September 16, 1939 ~ January 9, 2023
Resided in:
Portland, ME
Portland- Carol Anne McLaughlin, 83, of Portland died peacefully on Monday, January 9, 2023, the Feast of the Baptism of the Lord which marks the end of the Christmas Season, at Maine Medical Center with her loving family by her side.
Carol, or “BooBoo” as she was affectionately known by family, was born on September 16, 1939 in Portland, Maine the daughter of the late Edward A. and Mary A. (Gagnon) Legere. She attended local schools, graduating from Portland High School in the class of 1956 and then earned her Bachelor’s Degree from the University of Southern Maine as well as an Associate’s degree in Human Services from the University of Maine Orono.
On February 15, 1958 she married the loved of her life, Robert F. “Toby” McLaughlin at the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception. They spent 60 wonderful years together.
Carol started her career working with The Blind Children’s Resource Center where she worked closely with the founder Sister Miguel for several years before going to Evodia House, a Catholic Charities Organization, as a counselor for women who were battling substance abuse. In her spare-time she loved playing scrabble, solving crossword puzzles, and having phone chats with family and friends. She was a lifelong communicant of the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception, where she taught CDC, and for several years she cooked for the Sisters at the Mother House on Stevens Avenue. She was able to name all the Saints and knew every Feast Day and Holy Day.
In her retirement, Carol was active in the 62+ Club and was a member of the Portland Eagles Ladies Auxiliary. She was a very giving, devout and educated person who enjoyed fine dining, and trying different foods. She loved to entertain family and friends and was on top of every anniversary, birthday or special occasion. She was the keeper of all dates! Carol will long be remembered as a loving, caring and selfless person who always was willing to give of herself.
Carol was predeceased by her husband, Robert F. “Toby” McLaughlin in 2018. She is survived by a son, Robert F. II and his wife, Lisa McLaughlin of Waterboro; a brother, Ronald J. and Nancy Legere of Arizona; two grandchildren, Jacob Edward McLaughlin of Portland and Alicia and her husband David Adam Wilson of Standish; three great grandchildren, Audrey Kathleen McLaughlin, Eva Parker Wilson and Tobin Locke Wilson; former daughter in law, Cheryl McLaughlin of Portland; several cousins, nieces and nephews.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, January 19, 2023 at 10:00am at the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception, 307 Congress Street, Portland, ME. Burial will follow in Calvary Cemetery, Broadway, South Portland. Arrangements are under the direction of the Conroy-Tully Walker Funeral Home, 172 State Street, Portland, ME. To view Carol’s memorial page, or to share an online condolence, please visit www.ConroyTullyWalker.com
I love you Carol. I enjoyed our visits and phone calls. You were one in a million
Cousin Carol Ann was having someone in your corner in all phases of life.I always thought BooBoo was my Aunt not my cousin.She was the matriarch of our family and will be so missed.We loved her and always knew she had this!!She has left a hole in the hearts of all of us but know doubt we will sending her powerful messages from within ourselves.Her Legacy will live on in all of us.
Aunt Carol ……will miss you calling and singing to me on my Birthday. You and Uncle Bob were wonderful Godparents to me . Please give Uncle Bob a kiss for me in heaven.
Love your niece,
Linda (McLaughlin) Crawford xoxo
My mother-in-law was pretty close to being a saint..She was the one who helped me thru the loss of my sister….The life she lived while being here on earth was a god send to those who knew her..She will be missed by so many.
Mom….you will truly be missed by soooo many!
I met Carol when i was 15 years old..Dated her son Robbie for a year and a half before returning back to Maryland..As faith would have it, we caught back up again 32 years later and married..I never had a hard time calling her Mom…And that she was to me..
Aunt Carol – a wonderful person, we will miss you!
Love,
Maria & Paul Giobbi Jr.
Gone but will never be forgotten!
As director of McAuley Residence in the early 2000s, I saw Carol’s deep devotion to some women she met at Evodia House who moved on to the longer McAuley Residence program. She was their champion for personal progress and a strong family life. She and Toby were most supportive of the next generations. Eternal peace to both.